What We do To Make Relationships Fail
In this episode Diane Valiquette, goes into great detail about the different roles of the unhealthy blueprint we follow in order to keep us in the status quo. This status quo is not necessarily the best place of well being for anyone longterm.
Our goal of course is to be healthy so we can create and choose healthier relationships for ourselves and our families. When we look at the diagram above, we can see that the green triangle on the right hand side is the promised land. Being well and loving our own selves even when alone allows us to make choices that are best for us without falling into false narratives. It looks easy but some of the patterns of behaviour we have, have been installed into our lives for a very long time. With awareness, patience and practice, we can re align to spend more times operating from the conscious loving choice side of this diagram.
Find out how you can work with Diane Valiquette, the Divorce Coach by calling (613) 837-9025. She is a licensed divorce mediator and trained facilitator of Dr. Bruce Fisher’s Relationship Rebuilding program. Diane Valiquette broadcasts The Relationship Show weekly on the Ottawa Buzz TV Network.